Thursday, June 02, 2005

update

remember this post? trouble comes in threes?

here's the update

(1) nothing new on aunt marie

(2) g-ma was taken to the hospital early sunday, only to discover she just had a urinary tract infection this time around... successfully treated, and i got a call last night that she was released and sent back to her nursing home... this is good news

(3) a la mom, here's the uncle art update (via IM):
(mom): the lastest per grandma is that he's been sent home to die
(mom): it's just a matter of time
(mom): based on what daddy said, the family wants him to "die with dignity" and was discouraging anyone from coming to the house, including grandma
(me): so getting visits from family takes away from dignity?!
(mom): so other than when she went to the hospital with Bob about a week ago, she hasn't seen him ... at least that is how it sounds
(me): that's so contrary to how my mind works
(me): i'm glad she made it up once
(mom): every family is different...and this one has its oddities
(me): but oi... that's her little brother
(me): who is this coming from? lois or younger generations?
(mom): i don't know...probably Lois and daughter Cheryl
(mom): you know how grandma gets...maybe they don't want to deal with that

oi... so however it goes, that's the scoop.... i went on to comment that g-ma gets fussy and emotional because she cares,... asking family not to visit seems a little harsh to me, but it's not my immediate family, so there's not much more to say about it. anyhow, prayers still for uncle art and aunt marie especially.

later dudes.

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